Pain Free Anal Sex – How to

Whenever some mentions anal sex, there seems to be a big gasp as people start to go through their list of complaints: it is for the man’s benefit, not for the woman’s (Not true, if done correctly); it is illegal in many countries (True, but not as many as most people think); and some statistics about the spread of Sexually Transmitted Disease. However what few people accept is that lots of people are interested in it and often without any kind of guidelines. It is for those people that I wrote this guide, so they can an informed decision whether to include it in their sex lives or not:

Health Aspects of Anal Sex

Firstly there are a lot of health aspects that have to be considered. The bacteria in the anus should stay there. Therefore mixing anal and oral/ vaginal sex is a pretty easy way to become really ill.

Also the membrane in the anus is really thin, so care should be taken at all times. It can easily bleed too, which is one of the reasons why blood-borne STDs are more easily spread this way. Therefore it is vital to go slowly and use lots of lubrication for the whole process. You can almost not possibly use too much!

Is Anal Sex Pain Free?

This can be quite a tough one. Nothing is ever totally pain free (Even normal sex can hurt if she is not ready or you go too fast for her), however there are ways to make it as pain free as possible. If done correctly, it should be pleasurable for you AND her. This is because the anus is actually nerve-dense and is separated from pleasure zones such as the G-spot and AFE by a thin membrane. If treated right this can be a huge source of pleasure.

When women have a problem with anal sex it is usually either caused by an inconsiderate ex-boyfriend who did it wrong and hurt them in the process or a psychological problem caused by the idea of anal penetration. The key is to not bully her into it and take things at your own pace. Some women do not want to have anal and that should, of course, be respected.

Anal Sex: how to Do it Correctly

In this anal sex how to, I am going to really stress foreplay. As important as foreplay is for vaginal sex, it is even more important for anal sex. Also you will use as much lubrication as possible the whole way through.

It is best to bring her to a G-spot orgasm first. This will help her relax and have endorphins pumping. It will also make it easier to stimulate the sensitive zones anally and give her an anal orgasm. Then use a finger and gently insert it. If you are worried about bacteria, you can cut the finger off a plastic glove and use that as a kind of ‘condom.’ Take it slowly and do not try to rush her or go too fast. Calibrate everything carefully to her.

The next step is to slowly increase the size of insertion. At first you will want a thin, long sex toy. There are plenty of products available, just make sure it is designed for the purpose, preferably with a wide handle-like base at the bottom so that you have control over it at all times.

After this a larger butt plug should be used. Usually it will take two of even three to progress her to the point where you can penetrate her pain free. Always make sure you have a pre-agreed safe word just in case it is too much for her.

Pain free Anal Sex

The final part of this anal sex how to guide is about entering her. Ideally you will want her on all fours, with something supporting her torso. Then cover your condom with a lot of lubrication and go slowly, moving at her pace. If you did everything right and she is really turned on, anal orgasms are possible. This is the part where anal sex can be good for both of you.

Anal Sex – The Irresistible Call Of Tightness!

Anal sex is a great sexual pleasure and a lustful spice added to sexual activities. Many nerve ends in the anal milieu and rectum respond well to anal stimulations, and the tight anus rings cause strong sensations to a thrusting penis!

Two rings of muscles, called sphincters, functioning independently, form the anal gate: Anus. The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system like your lips or fingers, but the internal sphincter is autonomous like your heart which reacts and tenses up even when you try to relax. With experience and practice you may be able to control the internal sphincter movement to get easy penetration during the anal intercourse.

Besides all vital tips, techniques and pro methods of better anal sex, the answer of the famous question – Are anal muscles loosening with abundant anal sex? – is also included in Amy’s Better Sex Tutorial – Anal Sex Section.

How to maximize anal sex pleasures?

With a little attention and proper knowledge anal sex is not painful or messy but full of pleasures and satisfactions. Pain in anal sex activity means that something is wrong! With enough lubricant and patience it’s entirely possible to enjoy anal sex as a fulfilling part of your sexual activities.

It’s a fact that many men and women can achieve orgasm more easily with the help of anal sex activities! So learn how to make safe and pleasurable anal sex and don’t refrain yourself to give these sensational pleasures to your lover.

If you want to avoid any inconvenience in anal sex you may profit from dedicated diets for regular bowel movements. For effortless movements you need to control your food! For more information on cleanliness in anal sex, refer to Amy’s Better Sex Tutorial – Cleanliness section.

Even in the most joyful anal sex activity never forget to strictly reserve fingers, vibrators or dildos for only anal insertions and not to use them for vaginal insertion without truly cleaning. If you switch to vaginal intercourse from anal sex change the condom with a new one. Rectal microorganisms are harmless into your rectum, but if transferred to vagina, they may cause serious infections!

How to get maximum pleasures from anal sex?

Some people love anal sex, some other hate it! Anyway don’t force your partner to perform anal sex if she/he is not in the mood, and also don’t feel yourself obliged to make anal sex if you don’t want it! Better is to try anal sex at a special time, when you and your partner need something different and mischief, or when you feel yourself ready to discover unique anal sex pleasures.

Many men’s desire of including anal sex into sexual activities may be considered as a sign of mastering, a show of domination, and unfortunately it’s not a real need of better and lustful sex performance most of the time.

Anal sex pleasures can be better derived from the following formula: Knowledge + Lubricants + Patience. For pleasurable anal sex activities liberal lubrication is a must. More is better! Against the drying problem of water based lubricants, you can use oil based ones or Vaseline, or you can prepare your own lubricant with Amy’s special formulas.

But if you will use condom please be informed that only water based lubricants are advised!

Amy Guven is a founder partner of since 2000 and author of “Amy’s Tutorial – Reshape your Womanhood”. Including all vital sex tips, techniques, pro methods, and being highly successful as a reference book, Amy’s Better Sex & Relationships Tutorial aims to help people have a better life and relationships worldwide.

Want to Be Successful at Friends Dating? – Top Online Dating Tips and Techniques for Single People

The online dating industry for singles is booming and scores and scores of lonely single men and women are signing up to dating websites each week looking for new dates, friends dating and in many cases just to improve their social life.

Furthermore over the last few years with the advent of social media and new mobile platforms online dating for singles has become far more versatile and accessible. For example did you know that the majority of popular dating web sites are now fully compatible with the latest smart phones and tablets?

These exciting technological changes and advances revolutionise friends dating and the way singles from all walks of life can interact with new people or dates that they meet via a singles web site. So in light of these changes and improvements let us examine in detail how we may utilise a number of proven dating tips and techniques to be more successful at friends dating.

Proven Online Dating Techniques for Friends Dating

Dating web sites, whatever the niche tend to fall into a number of service categories; they are either running empty with few members or are overgrown with so many single member profiles that it makes choosing a prospective partner exceedingly difficult indeed.

To make matters far worse some dating web sites are full of out dated member profiles that either haven’t logged in for months (or years) or offer minimal information, no pictures and hardly any text. Remember that your singles profile on a friends dating web site is your opportunity to sell yourself to other interested singles looking to find a date near you.

Build a Proper Singles Dating Profile – The Most Important Technique for Singles Looking for Love

One of the best techniques that you can employ to be successful at Internet dating is to ensure that your member profile is bursting with useful information. Use photos and video to expand your description and spend time on the text, describe your likes and dislikes, your personality and what kind of single friend or date you hope to meet.

The majority of mainstream online dating web sites will offer this basic dating feature on their web site so be certain to take advantage of profile building to boost your presence. A well thought out member profile is one of the most imortant steps that you can take to become successful at online dating, meet new people and friends and ultimately find the relationship you desire and deserve.

Treat Friends, Other Singles and Potential Dates With Respect

Treat other singles looking for love and romance with respect at all times, the whole dating online experience can enable people with false sense of bravado, after all it is easy to feel more confident than normal in your own home when hidden behind the privacy of a personal computer.

Never make assumptions about people who you have never met and always be polite when talking to other singles. Do not divulge personal information to strangers, remember that a person that you are chatting to on a dating web site may not be all what they say they are; is their profile and picture real, do they really live where they say that they do? These are all questions you should be thinking when you are forming the early stages of a relationship.

Ensure Your First Date is a Safe Dating Experience – Meet New Singles in a Public Place

Singles date all over the country in major cities such as London, Manchester, Bristol, Birmingham and Liverpool, never arrange to meet a new date for the first time somewhere that you do not feel safe. Public places are always safest. Most people are who they say that they are but you can never be to careful when meeting new people for the first time.

The Best Places to Visit for Friends Dating

Until you know more about a person that you have met on a singles web site consider meeting people who you find attractive in a bar or restaurant, just go for a morning coffee or for a walk in a public place. Your goal is to relax and to allow your companion the chance to relax also. For a real date to have potential you need to be able to talk freely without inhibition.

Younger singles may prefer a pub or cocktail bar, older singles perhaps a more relaxed venue. If your first date goes well consider taking trips to the cinema, theatre or even some short city breaks. Be sure to read the following free tips on friends dating and further ideas on where to go on a first date.

Success With Women – Success With Men in Any Singles Niche

These advanced dating techniques will work in almost any dating niche, there are so many after all. Popular dating niches include Christian dating, uniform dating, single friends dating, disabled dating, single with kids, single parent dating and senior and mature dating for example.

These proven dating techniques will certainly get you noticed, remember that other singles typically want exciting dates that offer good engaging conversation, a relaxed friendly environment and a chance to get to know the other person properly.

Whether you are looking for a single man or for a single woman just follow these absolute dating techniques for an improved chance of relationship success or visit the SingleMe web site for more top romantic tips for single men and women looking for love and new friends.